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Mother. Job Description No. 398

March 17th, 2010. Published under ano ikaon mo?, parenting. 6 Comments.

“You eat this”,  commanded my daughter as she thrust the red velvet cupcake into my hands. I had bought it for her at the donut shop just across her school.  When I picked her up, she looked like she was about to burst into tears. The dam broke when I asked her if she was okey. She answered with loud sobs and a flood of tears. Turned out she hit a boy and her teacher reprimanded her. After making her promise not to do it again, I took her to the donut place. That cheered her up.

I looked at the cupcake with a frown. All the red and pink sprinkles were licked off the white icing. “I wouldn’t have bought this if I knew you were not going to eat all of it. It’s never good to waste your food. You eat it,” I lectured. “But you have to,” she insisted. “Why do I have to?,” I argued. She shrugged ,”because you have to”.

And so I ate it. First time I tasted red velvet cupcake. Not bad.

Mother. Job Description No. 398: devourer of her children’s unfinished food

At that very moment an image of my maternal grandmother flashed in my mind. Lola Tarcing, whose legs were cut off due to diabetes, spent her lifetime finishing off her children and grandchildren’s leftover softdrinks and snacks. When my cousins and I were younger, we’d would go into her bakery and open up bottles of  Coke, Pepsi, Seven-up, and Mirinda. We’d take a few swigs and leave them unfinished on top of her display shelves. If she had placed them in a cooler, maybe we would have consumed them to the last drop.  My lola, who worked so hard to achieve a comfortable life, detested wasteful behaviour.  She never scolded us. Simply finished off our leftovers. Strange… all that sugary stuff  and she was never sweet. Must have been the diabetes making her irritable as she grew older and sicker.  She thought it was sinful to waste food. Everytime we ate at her house she never failed to tell us that good fortune will be offended and will fly out of our homes if we leave even just a single grain of rice on our plates. OMG. Seems like, if I’m not careful, I’m headed down the path she took.

6 Comments

Pinggoi  on March 22nd, 2010

Hi Chic,

I’m curious what the Job Description No. 1-397 are….

Chiqui  on March 23rd, 2010

Job description 1-397? Damo-damo gid. Sometimes don’t you find your mind abuzz with a million little details to accomplish? That’s job description 1-397.

joe linton  on March 23rd, 2010

lol on the other 397! As an uncle, I do find myself finishing my nieces’ and nephews’ unfinished plates.

Chiqui  on March 27th, 2010

wow! uncles do that, too? be careful, you might end up like my grandmother if you keep it up.

oj  on May 18th, 2010

haha!! cute2 sang uncle :)
seriously, we should only be eating when we’re hungry.. sa dason nang chiq, paki-save sa carton and send to us hehe.. more seriously pa guid, amo na disadvantage kun wala streetchildren.. :)

Chiqui  on May 27th, 2010

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